The start of a new year brings reflection, resolutions, and the hope of new beginnings. For some, that reflection includes looking honestly at an unhappy marriage. It’s not uncommon for couples to postpone serious decisions until after the holiday season, especially if children or extended family are involved. However, once January arrives, the emotional weight of the relationship may feel even heavier.
If you're thinking about starting fresh in the new year, you're not alone—and you're not without options. At Pearson Butler, we work with individuals throughout Utah who are ready to explore whether a post-holiday divorce is the right step forward.
Why Divorce Filings Increase After the Holidays
January is often referred to as “divorce month” by legal professionals—and for good reason. Many couples wait until after the holidays to file, and several factors contribute to that timing:
- Protecting children from stress during the holidays
- Avoiding conflict during family gatherings
- Wanting to give the relationship one last try
- Financial concerns tied to year-end expenses or taxes
When the new year begins, emotions may settle, reality sets in, and people make long-term plans with clarity.
A divorce at the start of the year can feel like a fresh slate, but also requires careful thought, preparation, and legal guidance.
Is Now the Right Time for Divorce?
Deciding to divorce is deeply personal, and there's no one-size-fits-all answer. However, some signs may indicate it’s time to seriously consider moving on:
- Persistent emotional disconnection
- Repeated conflict with no resolution
- Loss of trust or respect
- An unhealthy environment for you or your children
- Attempts at reconciliation have failed
If you’re unsure whether to file immediately, speaking with a family law attorney can provide clarity without committing you to a course of action. A consultation can help you understand your rights, responsibilities, and the process if you choose to move forward.
Preparing for a Post-Holiday Divorce
If you’re considering filing for divorce in Utah early in the year, there are a few important steps you can take to prepare:
1. Gather Financial Information
Start organizing documents such as tax returns, bank statements, pay stubs, retirement account balances, and debt records. The more complete your financial picture, the smoother the process will be.
2. Think About Custody and Parenting Plans
If you have children, begin thinking about your custody, visitation, and support goals. Utah courts prioritize the child's best interests and prefer parenting plans that promote stability and cooperation.
3. Take Care of Your Emotional Health
Even if divorce is the right choice, it’s still a major life change. Seek support from friends, therapists, or support groups. Being emotionally grounded helps you make thoughtful decisions during the legal process.
4. Consult an Experienced Divorce Attorney
Every divorce is unique. An attorney can help you understand your options, protect your interests, and develop a strategy tailored to your situation, whether you expect a cooperative settlement or anticipate more complex negotiations.
A New Beginning Is Possible
Divorce is never easy, but it can be the start of a healthier, more fulfilling chapter in your life. If you're stuck in a marriage that no longer works, the new year can be an opportunity to reset your calendar, not just your future.
Utah Divorce Lawyers
At Pearson Butler, our experienced Utah family law attorneys are here to guide you through every step of the divorce process with clarity, compassion, and confidence. If you're considering filing for divorce after the holidays, contact us today at (800) 265-2314 to schedule a confidential consultation and start planning your next chapter with support you can trust.
